Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Week 5 Justice

Week 5 Justice 




The Basics

1807    Justice is the moral virtue that consists in the constant and firm will to give their due to God and neighbor. Justice toward God is called the “virtue of religion.” Justice toward men disposes one to respect the rights of each and to establish in human relationships the harmony that promotes equity with regard to persons and to the common good. The just man, often mentioned in the Sacred Scriptures, is distinguished by habitual right thinking and the uprightness of his conduct toward his neighbor. “You shall not be partial to the poor or defer to the great, but in righteousness shall you judge your neighbor.” 




Questions for Reflection
Describe justice in your own words.
What does it mean to give your fellow man his due?
What does it mean to give God His due?
What are some ways you are just and some ways you are unjust toward God and man?



A Deeper Look 
John Paul 2 January 1 2002- on World day of Peace
Peace: the work of justice and love 
2. Recent events, including the terrible killings just mentioned, move me to return to a theme which often stirs in the depths of my heart when I remember the events of history which have marked my life, especially my youth. 
The enormous suffering of peoples and individuals, even among my own friends and acquaintances, caused by Nazi and Communist totalitarianism, has never been far from my thoughts and prayers. I have often paused to reflect on the persistent question: how do we restore the moral and social order subjected to such horrific violence? My reasoned conviction, confirmed in turn by biblical revelation, is that the shattered order cannot be fully restored except by a response that combines justice with forgiveness. The pillars of true peace are justice and that form of love which is forgiveness.   
3. But in the present circumstances, how can we speak of justice and forgiveness as the source and condition of peace? We can and we must, no matter how difficult this may be; a difficulty which often comes from thinking that justice and forgiveness are irreconcilable. But forgiveness is the opposite of resentment and revenge, not of justice. In fact, true peace is “the work of justice” (Is 32:17). As the Second Vatican Council put it, peace is “the fruit of that right ordering of things with which the divine founder has invested human society and which must be actualized by man thirsting for an ever more perfect reign of justice” (Pastoral Constitution Gaudium et Spes, 78). For more than fifteen hundred years, the Catholic Church has repeated the teaching of Saint Augustine of Hippo on this point. He reminds us that the peace which can and must be built in this world is the peace of right order—tranquillitas ordinis, the tranquillity of order (cf. De Civitate Dei, 19,13). 
True peace therefore is the fruit of justice, that moral virtue and legal guarantee which ensures full respect for rights and responsibilities, and the just distribution of benefits and burdens. But because human justice is always fragile and imperfect, subject as it is to the limitations and egoism of individuals and groups, it must include and, as it were, be completed by the forgiveness which heals and rebuilds troubled human relations from their foundations. This is true in circumstances great and small, at the personal level or on a wider, even international scale. Forgiveness is in no way opposed to justice, as if to forgive meant to overlook the need to right the wrong done. It is rather the fullness of justice, leading to that tranquillity of order which is much more than a fragile and temporary cessation of hostilities, involving as it does the deepest healing of the wounds which fester in human hearts. Justice and forgiveness are both essential to such healing. 

It is these two dimensions of peace that I wish to explore in this message. The World Day of Peace this year offers all humanity, and particularly the leaders of nations, the opportunity to reflect upon the demands of justice and the call to forgiveness in the face of the grave problems which continue to afflict the world, not the least of which is the new level of violence introduced by organized terrorism.  

Week 4 Prudence

Week 4 Prudence


The Basics 




Catechism of the Catholic Church- paragraph 1806   

"Prudence is the virtue that disposes practical reason to discern our true good in every circumstance and to choose the right means of achieving it; “the prudent man looks where he is going.” “Keep sane and sober for your prayers.” Prudence is “right reason in action,” writes St. Thomas Aquinas, following Aristotle. It is not to be confused with timidity or fear, nor with duplicity or dissimulation. It is called auriga virtutum (the charioteer of the virtues); it guides the other virtues by setting rule and measure. It is prudence that immediately guides the judgment of conscience. The prudent man determines and directs his conduct in accordance with this judgment. With the help of this virtue we apply moral principles to particular cases without error and overcome doubts about the good to achieve and the evil to avoid."

Helpful Definitions

Duplicity-contradictory doubleness of thought, speech, or action; especially:  the belying of one's true intentions by deceptive words or action

Dissimulation- to hide under a false appearance

Questions for reflection

Am I live a consistent and responsible life?
Am I honest and do I speak honestly?
Do I tend to say what others want to hear?
Do I have a well formed sense of right and wrong and is it consistent with the church?

Looking Deeper 

Prudent is he who can keep silent that part of truth which may be untimely, and by not speaking it, does not spoil the truth of what he said.
Pope John XXIII (1881 - 1963)

Speech from Saint John Paul II –Oct 25 1978
Well, today I wish to continue this plan, which the late Pope had prepared, and to speak briefly of the virtue of prudence. The ancients spoke a great deal of this virtue. We owe them, for this reason, deep gratitude and thanks. In a certain dimension, they taught us that the value of man must be measured with the yardstick of the moral good which he accomplishes in his life. It is just this that ensures the virtue of prudence first place. The prudent man, who strives for everything that is really good, endeavors to measure every thing, every situation and his whole activity according to the yardstick of moral good. So a prudent man is not one who — as is often meant — is able to wangle things in life and draw the greatest profit from it; but one who is able to construct his whole life according to the voice of upright conscience and according to the requirements of sound morality.

So prudence is the key for the accomplishment of the fundamental task that each of us has received from God. This task is the perfection of man himself. God has given our humanity to each of us. We must meet this task by planning it accordingly.

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Week 3 Temperance

Temperance (moderation or self control)



The Basics


Temperance allows us to control ourselves by maintaining balance in our lives. It keeps us from going to extremes. In everyday life the virtue of temperance allows us to enjoy the good things in life without so over-indulging that it becomes bad for us. The term “everything in moderation” teaches that finding balance is important to living a life of happiness 

Reflection Questions 


What are some good things that can be overdone?
Who is someone you know who lives a well-balanced life?
Is there a specific area in your life that you are in need of self-control?
What are some sins that are attacks on temperance (sins that take a something good to extremes)?

The Deep Side


Catechism of the Catholic Church Paragraph 1809 

Temperance is the moral virtue that moderates the attraction of pleasures and provides balance in the use of created goods. It ensures the will’s mastery over instincts and keeps desires within the limits of what is honorable. The temperate person directs the sensitive appetites toward what is good and maintains a healthy discretion: “Do not follow your inclination and strength, walking according to the desires of your heart.” Temperance is often praised in the Old Testament: “Do not follow your base desires, but restrain your appetites.” In the New Testament it is called “moderation” or “sobriety.” We ought “to live sober, upright, and godly lives in this world.” 

"Complete abstinence is easier than perfect moderation" -St. Augustine of Hippo 

A Practical View on Self Control 




Just for fun



Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Week 2 Courage

Week 2 Courage (Fortitude)


The Basics

This week we are talking about virtue and courage (also called fortitude). Virtue is about joyfully pursuing the good in our lives and living a life of happiness now and for all eternity. Courage keeps us strong in times of adversity and enables us to overcome fear in everyday life and in extreme circumstances. 

From the Catechism of the Catholic Church (Paragraph 1804)  
Human virtues are firm attitudes, stable dispositions, habitual perfections of intellect and will that govern our actions, order our passions, and guide our conduct according to reason and faith. They make possible ease, self-mastery, and joy in leading a morally good life. The virtuous man is he who freely practices the good.

The moral virtues are acquired by human effort. They are the fruit and seed of morally good acts; they dispose all the powers of the human being for communion with divine love.

From the Catechism of the Catholic Church (Paragraph 1808)  
(Courage or) Fortitude is the moral virtue that ensures firmness in difficulties and constancy in the pursuit of the good. It strengthens the resolve to resist temptations and to overcome obstacles in the moral life. The virtue of fortitude enables one to conquer fear, even fear of death, and to face trials and persecutions. It disposes one even to renounce and sacrifice his life in defense of a just cause. “The Lord is my strength and my song.” “In the world you have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”

Reflection questions


1. What are some things you are afraid of both goofy and serious?
2. When was a time you conquered fear?
3. What role does fear play in your life?
4. Does fear slow you down or prevent you from anything?

On the Deeper side


St. John Paul II’s First Homily as Pope 

“Brothers and sisters, do not be afraid to welcome Christ and accept his power. Help the Pope and all those who wish to serve Christ and with Christ's power to serve the human person and the whole of mankind. Do not be afraid. Open wide the doors for Christ. To his saving power open the boundaries of States, economic and political systems, the vast fields of culture, civilization and development. Do not be afraid. Christ knows "what is in man". He alone knows it.
So often today man does not know what is within him, in the depths of his mind and heart. So often he is uncertain about the meaning of his life on this earth. He is assailed by doubt, a doubt which turns into despair. We ask you therefore, we beg you with humility and trust, let Christ speak to man. He alone has words of life, yes, of eternal life.”

click here to read the full homily



Martin Luther King Jr's Last Speech 



Martin Luther King Jr's Sermon on Courage and Faith



Clip from a Movie on the life of Mahatma Gandhi 







Thursday, May 21, 2015

Week 1

Week 1 


Hey my Young Apostle Friends,

Here is a little intro to everything we are working for men's and women's groups. It starts this Tuesday May 26th with Mass then we will hang for a little bit before splitting into our groups. We are still going to do accountability, but we are also going to start by having you talk about a virtue each week. This week we are going into Friendship and how good friends lead you to virtue. All you need to do is read this blog post and be prepared to share. My hope is for you to share on your friendships and which ones  lead you closer to God or to live a virtuous life.(a virtuous life is living out the good things God plans for you. We will define virtue more next week)

So I'm hanging in Memphis this weekend so I left you guys some tunes in the background of the video. See you Tuesday I am praying for you.          
-Joe

Friendship

The Basics


3 Types of Friendships (Aristotle)

1. Those Motivated By Utility or Usefulness -We become friends, because someone is useful to us. They help us with an activity or make life easier in some way. This friendship is based on finding one another useful.
2. Those Motivated By Pleasure -These are friends that we enjoy something about them or doing something with them. This friendship is based off of enjoying one another.
3. Those Motivated By Virtue or Goodness - these friendships are indispensable and necessary for happiness. These are friendships that are built off of the pursuit of the good. They see one another's  goodness and strive for virtue together. Friends motivated by virtue can start as friends of usefulness and pleasure but are elevated through leading the other person to goodness. That doesn't mean they stop being useful of pleasurable but that it is elevated to something more.




Activity 

Think of 10 friendships and honestly categorize them into one of the three types of friendships



On the Deeper side



Aristotle knew that there are several different kinds of friend­ ship. Of these, he thought that only one was perfect friend­ ship---the kind that exists between persons who love one an­other and wish only to benefit the other.
Aristotle also knew that such friendships are rare. More frequently, we speak of another person as being a friend because he is useful to us or because we get some pleasure from him. Such friendships are selfish. The person we call a friend serves some interest of our own, and we regard him or her as a friend only so long as that remains the case. In contrast, true friend­ ship or love is unselfish. It is benevolent. It aims at serving the good of the other.

Justice, like love, is concerned with the good of the other per­son. However, there is a clear difference between them. When we truly love someone, we do not give the person loved what he or she has a right to claim from us. On the con­trary, we give to them of ourselves generously and unselfishly, without any regard to their rights. We do for them more than they have any right to expect.
-Aristotle for Everyone by M. Adler (p114-115)


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